so, this is a surprise.. because, i have always thought that whenever will be the time to sit down and discuss the wedding paraphernalia for me, it will be a case of the perfect storm and nothing good can ever come out off that, and it'll definitely require a "divine" intervention to stop the bridezilla and the harassed mother of the bride and restore some faith in the hapless dad of the bride!
but, as the days go by and without any concrete evidence of the wedding day getting any closer (yes, my folks are still not ready to marry me off, and that suits me oh-so-perfectly!) it seems that me and mamma are more in sync over the various paraphernalia involved in the ceremony that anyone would have even imagined..
and today's was the best one! i always had some sort of fascination for the "chudas".. so much so, that i almost did my end of research on them too! and i have always, consciously or otherwise, imagined a punjabi wedding.. i guess, i really can't term my general affinity towards punjabi and also my boyfriend(s) being punjabi, a mere coincidence.. so, today, while shopping for some bangles for her, we entered some store, exclusively for bangles.. and of course there were chudas.. and she said, "i love chudas.. i'll like you to wear on your wedding too!" i simply blurted out, shocked, "i love chudas.. have always loved them!"
p.s. note the fact that the wedding in question is a bong wedding (in the future tense), and the bride is a bong bride (again in the future tense), and there is no presence of chudas in a bong wedding..
so yeah!!!
surprise surprise!!!!
one wedding probably (again in the future tense) wherein there wont be any disagreement over the paraphernalia choices!
but, as the days go by and without any concrete evidence of the wedding day getting any closer (yes, my folks are still not ready to marry me off, and that suits me oh-so-perfectly!) it seems that me and mamma are more in sync over the various paraphernalia involved in the ceremony that anyone would have even imagined..
and today's was the best one! i always had some sort of fascination for the "chudas".. so much so, that i almost did my end of research on them too! and i have always, consciously or otherwise, imagined a punjabi wedding.. i guess, i really can't term my general affinity towards punjabi and also my boyfriend(s) being punjabi, a mere coincidence.. so, today, while shopping for some bangles for her, we entered some store, exclusively for bangles.. and of course there were chudas.. and she said, "i love chudas.. i'll like you to wear on your wedding too!" i simply blurted out, shocked, "i love chudas.. have always loved them!"
p.s. note the fact that the wedding in question is a bong wedding (in the future tense), and the bride is a bong bride (again in the future tense), and there is no presence of chudas in a bong wedding..
so yeah!!!
surprise surprise!!!!
one wedding probably (again in the future tense) wherein there wont be any disagreement over the paraphernalia choices!
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